Wednesday is a day of the week in the Gregorian calendar. According to international standard ISO 8601, it is the third day of the week. This day is between Tuesday and Thursday. The name is derived from Old English Wōdnesdæg and Middle English Wednesdei, ultimately a calque of dies Mercurii "day of Mercury"
Wednesday is in the middle of the common Western 5-day workweek that starts on Monday and finishes on Friday. Also, when Sunday is taken as the first of every week, Wednesday is the day in the middle.
Anyway, this morning I got up quite early than usual. Each time I get up for Solat Subuh, for sure akan tido balik lah, at least until 8am-ish. :P But today, I managed to stay up to watch "Tanyalah Ustaz" at 7 am on TV9! The topic was 'Jgn Mengeluh'. Ustaz Kazim Elias was the speaker. I really admire him & love to hear his ceramah on YouTube! He was explaining that jika kita ditimpa musibah, jgn mengeluh. Instead selalu2 lah mintak doa dgn Allah & bersyukur kerana musibah yg diturunkan Allah kepada kita is to 'cuci' dosa2 kita yg lalu & also Allah will give us something much better later on. :) Cuma we have to bersabarlah apabila ditimpa musibah. Musibah yang berlaku ketika di dunia ada orang akan tolong for eg : Families, friends & etc.. Tapi musibah di dalam alam kubur, tiada siapa dapat tolong kita, i.e we will be alone in it, scary huh??
Those are some of the ceramah given by Ustaz Kazim which I could remember by heart. It's easier said than done kan? It made me realized that when bad things happen to me, I would sometimes show my tantrum & naik angin tak tentu pasal! It's as tho it's the end of everything-lah! But when I came back to my senses & cooled down a bit, I try (very hard) to think of it that ada hikmah disebaliknya & kept pondering on what have I done to deserve this musibah? Dugaan, Dugaan... I try to take it on the positive side lah.. Furthermore, ade org lagi susah dari kita & that keeps me going forward lah.
Ustaz Kazim also mentioned about Surah Ibrahim ayat 40 & Surah As-Syuraa' ayat 19. ( refer to the Tafsiran Quran for the meaning)
Surah As-Syuraa' ayat 19 : Isteri baca ke atas ubun2 suami semasa dia sedang tido sebanyak 19 kali supaya suami lembut hati.
Surah Ibrahim ayat 40 : Ibubapa baca utk anak2 supaya rajin solat.
Apparently musibah berlaku ke atas setiap hamba Allah either musibah dgn suami, isteri, anak2, parents, parents-in-law, diri sendiri & etc... even God gave us wealth & health BUT if we takbur & tak solat/berdoa to Allah,anytime DIA boley tarik balik kesemua nikmat itu. It's a reminder to oneself.
Just to share some ilmu, moga2 mendpt. keberkatan & keredhaan.., Insya Allah.... correct me if am wrong :)
And now am wondering how do I get through IF there is a Dugaan for me when I become a Wife? Am I strong enough to face all the challenges?? M just pondering....